You gotta love it....

[Peggy]

I belong to a couple of different dating sites. BBPeopleMeet, SingleParentsMeet, and PlentyofFish.com, the latter being a free site. I've corresponded with a few men from these sites, one whom I actually met and dated for a couple of months. We recently broke it off, and I'm very relieved about it.

On to my point - some people can be SO cruel. I received a message from a man on the BBPeopleMeet site just a little while ago, and thought I'd share it here. Not for any particular reason, just for the hell of it.


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From: billthttp://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gifhttp://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gif To: Ohiosweethearthttp://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gifhttp://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gif Subject: No Subjecthttp://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gifhttp://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gif Date: 2007-08-31 / 02:22:49http://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gifhttp://www.bbpeoplemeet.com/community/images/spacer.gif

You work 2 jobs yet make only $18,000 a year? With a disabled kid that youll be stuck with forever, and as big as you are, you need to drop the silly requirements and be happy if any men will date you.

[Peggy]

Men like this are the reason I'm happily single and have every intention of staying this way. ;)

[Kent]

At times you almost wonder if jerks like that join dating sites just to be rude because even their own hands turn them down. I hope you didn't lose any sleep over that comment and don't forget that somewhere, someone wants to make you their everything and if he's lucky you'll want to make him your everything. Granted, having both rarely happens but here's to the hope of it anyway.

[Peggy]

Naw I just got this, this afternoon. I replied & told the guy he didn't know what he was talking about, my boy has a disorder but is far from disabled, and is my life, called him an idiot, and reported him, lol. I can promise you I won't lose any sleep over this.

Whoever snags me is going to be one lucky, happy, and loved man. ;)

[RC's Sweetheart]

Some guys are just idiots... I know if I'd been in the same situation.. I would have had a few more choice words from him... but those type of people aren't worth the time nor space they take up. Be glad that he was upfront about his feelings... nothing like having someone string you along... and then after you've developed an attachment for them and everything "seems" so wonderful... then the other shoe drops and you're whole world falls apart.... No one deserves abuse... physical or verbal....

[Peggy]

this isn't someone I was dating. This is just an idiot that ran across my profile on a dating site I'm a member of.

However, what you said above does describe the guy I was dating for two months, up until 2 weeks ago. He almost had me fooled. I'm SO glad I got out before he was able to really hurt me, more than he already had.

[Hazguy]

Whoever snags me is going to be one lucky, happy, and loved man. ;)

That guy who sent you the email just doesn't know what he just missed out on.

and as to the above quote, Peggy .... I wholehartedly agree!! Whoever snags you WILL be one lucky dude.

[Peggy]

awww thank you darlin', you're a sweetheart :lips:

[Peggy]

That sounds exactly like the guy I broke up with a couple of weeks ago.

My only salvation is that, for some reason, I was able to keep my distance emotionally. Now I know why. He really played me. If I'd given myself totally to the relationship as I normally do without thought or reason, I would have been devastated.

My question is - why is it that, when you DO know someone who can make you really happy, who would be everything to you, and you would be MORE than willing to make him your everything, and you KNOW that he wouldn't hurt you, and you won't hurt him - you live so damn far apart, that there's really no chance of it happening. :(

[Kent]

Good question, no easy answer if any at all

[Peggy]

I know :(

[Hazguy]

My question is - why is it that, when you DO know someone who can make you really happy, who would be everything to you, and you would be MORE than willing to make him your everything, and you KNOW that he wouldn't hurt you, and you won't hurt him - you live so damn far apart, that there's really no chance of it happening. :(

That is why I never did the long distance dating thing ... I had several offers from women in far away states want to try "dating" ... but I said no, cus I could never give them an emotional and physical attatchment that every good relationship has. How can you support someone emotionally from across the country?? You can't ... its impossible.

[Peggy]

True, but... what about in the same state, but 3 or 4 hours away?

[Hazguy]

True, but... what about in the same state, but 3 or 4 hours away?

Hmm... I dunno ... I'd have to think about that one .... I'd prolly do that as a casual dating ... but not as a serious relationship

Hmm .. good question, Peggy

[Peggy]

heheh... just the opposite for me.

If I'm gonna drive 3 or 4 hours (and yeah I'd be willing to), it better damn well be a serious relationship. No way would I drive all that way for a casual fling (I don't do those anyway)

[Peggy]

I received the sweetest message this morning, from someone at that dating site, who read what the jerk said (I put it at the end of my profile there) -


Dearest Peggy,
I cannot believe that anybody would write such a horrible message to anyone . I guess it just goes to show that people just need to love and respect one another. it is not hard to do. I guess it would be okay to say that thing who wrote that msg is a dick. And is obviously unhappy with life.
You are very obviously in love with your child regardless if his supposed disabilities. This is just who you are, and you are beautiful!

Bruce

[tterry71]

Sorry for that bas... I love BBW's more to hug and they seems to have a better personality tha those skinny minis

[Peggy]

you're a sweetheart terry, thanks. And welcome to TalkOhio!

[RA_from_BH]

some people are just plain jerks; and some are worse. you, clearly, are neither, and not deserving of such abuse. hope things work out as you want them to. and neat site, of course :woohoo:

[Peggy]

Thank you RA! I'm doing just fine. :D
I'm glad you like the site, and hope you visit often.

[Jim6763nva]

My question is - why is it that, when you DO know someone who can make you really happy, who would be everything to you, and you would be MORE than willing to make him your everything, and you KNOW that he wouldn't hurt you, and you won't hurt him - you live so damn far apart, that there's really no chance of it happening. :(

I know how you feel on this one... In the summer of 2007, I met someone I absolutely fell in love with, only she lives in Canada. She did drive down and we spent the weekend together, and oh what a weekend it was! :D We went to Virginia's King's Dominion amusement park and spend the day, then the next day we took a drive in the Shenandoah/Blue Ridge Mountains and had a romantic picnic. Everything was beautiful. She even said she could see moving down and creating a life with me. Well that all seemed to change after she got home and started processing her current divorce. Her soon to be ex husband was being a prick needless to say, and then her family (mom/grandmother, etc) stepped in and told her that they would not come to visit if she moved down to Virginia. Anyway, my friend decided she couldn't confide in me and decided to start being verbally mean to me. It hurt, but in my heart I know she still loves me as much as I do her. yes, I still to do this day, only she's in Canada and she's afraid to move. I'm not sure what to do at this point. Both of us still talk, and we play World of Warcraft together from time to time. Hmmm.. Ok.. this is starting to become a book.. lol not my intention. Sorry, I tend to ramble.. lol If you're still reading this.. thanks for hearing me out and I hope I didn't bore anyone.

Jim

[Peggy]

You did not bore anyone Jim. Thanks for "spilling your guts". I do that as well from time to time. But that's what this particular forum is here for, so don't hesitate.